my four year old walked in on me and my husband??!!

Kelsie - posted on 08/22/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




Hi there I need some advice. Last night my four year old son walked in on me and my husband having sex. He was a little weirded out and asked what we were doing and neither one of knew what to say... My husband took him out of the room and he was unsure of what to say to him when he asked if we were making another baby, I am currently pregnant... I was able to get dressed and he came to lay down with us as he was not feeling good and asked me why I had no pants on and I had no clue what to say. I am very shy and I am very private when it comes to my body with him so it was a big shock for him to see me with no pants on and doing what we were doing... My four year old is very intelligent he has the understanding of a 7 year old but I still have no idea what to say... My mom said to just leave it unless he asks again but I am worried about him talking to other people about it... Need some insight!!!


Michelle - posted on 08/22/2013




I'm sorry but being naked is natural and there is no reason for you to be embarrassed in front of your children. In the instance of him walking in on you then I would leave it unless he brings it up again. If he does tell him it's something that Mummy's and Daddy's do when they love each other.
I guess I've never had to deal with the half naked issue since I (and my husband) always sleep naked so it's not an issue. The kids don't even comment if I walk through the house naked. My oldest is 12 and even he just sees it as natural.
He probably won't say anything to anyone so stop worrying about that.

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