my girl is 14 years old and summer comes she has a boyfirend and she wants him to come over and sleep with him(in the bed with my daughter) for a night do you think they will have SEX ????????????? beacause if they do what happens but will they have sex and is it ok if they do

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Jodi - posted on 08/09/2012

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Please, someone tell me this question is a joke......that a parent of a teenager is NOT asking this question. Sorry, but if you are this child's mother, and you have to ask this question......then you have greater problems than your daughter potentially having sex with her boyfriend in her bed.

Amy - posted on 08/09/2012

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Umm if she's asking if it's ok for him to sleep over and spend the night in the bed with her she's probably already having sex. It's one thing for them to have sex, it's another thing to give them permission to do it in the house while you're home. Make sure your daughter is educated on how to prevent pregnancy and std's.

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Kim - posted on 08/10/2012

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Are you looking to be on MTV's Teen Mom... I can't believe you would even consider it.. Have respect for your daughter..She is too young to even have boy in her room..first off why would you want your child to struggle with having a baby possibly raising by herself, and not finishing HS..don't let her fall into the circle of being a single mom and relying on the taxpayers buck... And yes I understand you did not mention her being pregnant, however if your even questioning a sleepover with her boyfriend you are asking for it... I feel for your child I hope she is smarter than you!

Michelle - posted on 08/10/2012

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I agree with Jodi and hope this isn't a serious question.

If by chance it is then the answer would be NO WAY! For 1 it's illegal and if you are found out to have allowed it there would be repercussions for you as well.

Hope you are willing to be a grandmother and support her.

User - posted on 08/09/2012

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If you want to be complicit in an illegal act then go for it.

On the other hand if you want to be a responsible parent then say no, educate your daughter and set clear boundaries.

Dove - posted on 08/09/2012

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Have you lost your mind?! I take it you have no objection to being a grandma less than a year from now?

HELL NO!! Would be my response if that were my kid.... Your daughter is at an age where she probably has more freedoms and sex very well may be on the front of her mind. It's your job as her mother to do your best to get sex OFF her mind and to fill her head with ALL of the facts about sex, birth control, std's, pregnancy, and more. You may not be able to stop her from having sex after all of that (oh... don't forget the pics off the internet of what stds can do to you), but I, for one, would not be making it EASY for her.

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