Shannon - posted on 05/19/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )
My son got his girlfriend pregnant about 21 years ago and her parents adopted the baby boy. He knows his birth mother as his "sister". He knows nothing of my son, who passed away in 2008, nor me and my family. His adoptive mother (who is really his grandmother) doesn't want him to know about me, but I want to know him. I don't know what to do. Will telling him the family secret ruin his life? I see him on facebook and he looks so much like my son.