Maghann - posted on 07/08/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )
My husband and I have recently been told we lost our second baby at our 19 week check up. We went in for an ultrasound to discover the sex and they couldnt find the heart beat. The dr told us our baby had stopped growing at about 15 weeks. I was heart broken as i had felt baby moved and at the last visit baby had a very strong heartbeat. Now due to how far along I am I can not have a d&c- I have to be induced using laminieria monday evening and then tuesday morning pitocin. Ive had a week to digest this and every time i move i still feel pregnant and psychologically its killing me because my baby is still in the womb. My husband and I are planning to name the baby and have a memorial after delivery to help us with closure. however I am having a very hard time emotionally:( i have a beautiful 3 yr old girl and being with her helps but it still hurts. I just need someone to talk to that understands what im going through..