My husband and I separated,

Irmarie - posted on 01/12/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My husband and I separated, well he decided to leave because he likes to keep alot of things from me and when i confront him about it he cant take it. Then he brings up the lack of sex in our relationship he doesnt seem to understand that i cant get turned on when hes hiding things constantly and never ever helps me out around the house. He says he works harder than I do and hes always tired. Mind you i work fulltime at a charter school with kids all day then to come home to my own 2 boys who are 5 and 4 yrs old. Any way he started a new job about a month ago and is getting paid a little less ten before so hes only willing to give me 100 dollars every 2 weeks for the two boys!! Im soo blown away by this because ive had to pay my mortgage and bills including house supplys with 10.50/hour job. Hes become a completely differant person doesnt care that since he left ive stayed completely broke after paying everything, ive even had my bank account overdrafted many times since then. He says i just want more and more money and thats not true i just need more than 100$$ TO SUPPORT THESE KIDS after ive paid the roof they have over their head. He says that the house and everything is under my name so in other words he feels no responsibility. I recently went to the hospital by ambulance bcuz i felt like i was having a heart attack and it was just severe anxioety most likey from all the weight on my shoulders. I dont know what to do anymore im going crazy not having money left for gas or anything. I dont get why he is this way. How can someone say they love you and have no consideration for you and the kids ?

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Irmarie - posted on 01/12/2013

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Yes girl i completely agree! But thank god we've been together almost 7 yrs in april, but we never made it to the alter! Another of my reason to lose faith in this relationship is his commitment issues... Thanks lacye as far as the child support ill be making moves monday morning..

Lacye - posted on 01/12/2013

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Sounds like it is time to go to DHS and put his ass on child support. The next step after that would be to find a divorce lawyer. The bills and things may be in your name, but you didn't make those children on your own. He helped out with that!

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