my husband birthday,

Grace - posted on 03/04/2014 ( 24 moms have responded )

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How can i surprise him on it he never want any of his friends around for his birthday when i ask him what he would like he says just to be alone with me and only me no one else what should i do

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/05/2014

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plan a romantic evening with him. He's stated that is what he wants, and it's a great request, IMO. Why do something 'for' him that he's specifically asked you not to do?

Angela - posted on 03/10/2014

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First you're asking for guidance about his birthday, next you're asking for help with anniversary arrangements!

Can't keep up with you! What do you mean "he has very deep pockets"?

I'm agreeing with Gena W. here - I suspect you're a troll too! LOL!!

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Angela - posted on 03/12/2014

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Ah Gena, Grace might be a troll but she's a harmless troll and has given all of us such a good laugh, LOL!!

Nikkie - posted on 03/11/2014

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Your truly welcome! congrats. God granted you the best gift in the world tell him Happy Bday!

Gena - posted on 03/11/2014

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Grace u are such a troll...goodluck having those troll twins,as if anybody will believe u are now already pregnant...with twins. You are such a joke!

Grace - posted on 03/11/2014

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Thanks Nikkie i! Will and i have a very special surprise to tell him that I'm pregnant with are first child the surprise is that were going to have twins

Nikkie - posted on 03/10/2014

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Take him out for a romantic time together. then like Saturday or Sunday have a small gathering to where he could enjoy his self

Gena - posted on 03/10/2014

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Grace I dont care how deep your husbands pocket is...Fact is if you have the big bucks you dont talk about it! And i am not good at spelling in English..but, but is written with 1 t..butt means something else..and what do u actualy mean about german shepard and being your dad?? You are such a troll... Your problem,not mine!Ps why not try using prickly pear fruits instead of bananas..u troll!

Grace - posted on 03/09/2014

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Ladies thank you for all of your advice i just call and email all of are friends and told them not to do anything for us or for are anniversary because i just told my husband of everything that was planned because i don’t want my man to do something that he cannot take back and i told him about what i had plan for his birthday he trusts me i don’t want that to change so I'm sorry for letting you all down butt i need to do this to keep my marriage safe and to keep him from killing someone in are family or friends thanks to you all

Angela - posted on 03/08/2014

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Well Grace, I went to this thread because it's my own husband's birthday soon and I thought I'd pick up some ideas!

I read your decision on what you're planning and showed it to my husband. He roared with laughter. Thank you for brightening our day!

At 55, it's a long time since I had sex education but last time I checked, apparently you can't get pregnant from a banana!

Good luck and have fun!!

Gena - posted on 03/06/2014

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LOL i just had to show my husband the picture of the fruit basket,we are both laughing :) :) He said the wine is ok,but a man would prefer a fishing rod with it and not fruits.I think to tease him i will give him a little basket of fruits on his next birthday.

Gena - posted on 03/06/2014

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My husband would laugh if i would give him a basket of fruits,and i would too :)(because my hubby doesnt like fruits&vegs) but maybe you could give him a basket with bathfizzers,chocolates,a bodyscrub a massage oil and write a cute voucher for a back massage.

Andrea - posted on 03/06/2014

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If you want him to do stuff with other people, ask him about it nicely on a day other than his birthday. On his birthday, let him do what he wants...I think sergey's suggestion is a good one! Good luck.

Gena - posted on 03/06/2014

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I would just accecpt his wish to to be alone on his birthday,since you dont have children yet why dont you ask him if he would like to go a wellness resort with you..maybe spend a night there.That would be very romantic,and it would be just the two of you!

Michelle - posted on 03/05/2014

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My husband doesn't like to celebrate his birthday either. He usually takes the week off work and on the day of his birthday he takes off for a few hours on his own. I have never pushed and it's probably best not to either.
Everyone is different and has their own reasons for celebrating or not. Just enjoy the night together, especially if you are planning children because once they come along it's very different.

Grace - posted on 03/05/2014

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Wow is all that i can say about what my husband just said told me why he doesn't want a surprise party or anything to be done for his birthday from here on out. When he came home from work i had ask him if we could talk we sat down at the kitchen table soi said i know you don’t want anyone to through you an surprise party i know that can you tell me why or what happen to you so i understand after about an minute he was tease when he growing up and his parents always made him go everyone birthday party and some of the guys in his unit always play an practical jokes on his birthday or to him now i know why he has closed his self off to the people that love him so much

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/05/2014

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I'm certain you can find other ways to show that you appreciate how well he takes care of you.

My husband has social anxiety disorder. He would make the same request of me. To me, the best way to honor someone that you love unconditionally is to not purposely plan something he's specifically told you he doesn't want.

I know you feel that this is not enough, but he does. He feels that you don't need to show him your affection in that way. Honest, my hubby's the same, would give me the moon if he could. For our 'special' times, I take him to gun shows, or out shooting, or camping...things that I know he especially looks forward to, and that I know he enjoys.

Grace - posted on 03/05/2014

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Wi jue always have an beautiful evening together just the way he wants just one time i would love to have a very special surprise party just the way he goes out of his way for me he has a very big heart for me. One day i came home to see a brand new suv in are driveway that he bought me for my birthday because he wants me to be safe with one that wouldn't brake down. I love my husband unconditiondly and we have a strong marriage together he always tells me that his job is first to make sure that I'm always safe and sound

Grace - posted on 03/05/2014

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Right now we don’t have any kids butt we ar working on that. A couple of years ago after we had gotten married i had an birthday party plan for him so i had some of my friends that we whent to college with help me set it up the sins and the banners in the are house as we were getting everything ready he call me right at when i said his name and ask me how my day was going i that I'm fine and waiting for you to come home so i can give you a big kiss and huge hug he ok i be home soon after that he call everyone that was helping me with the surprise party it made all of really uncomfortable it was like he was right here in the house with us. After an hour and an have he call and said that if you would like to get dressed up and just us to go out for an very romantic dinner for too i will have a car come pick you up i hesitated to answer him right than he knew something was wrong

Gena - posted on 03/05/2014

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Sounds like my husband :) what we usualy do is go out on his birthday,to wellness spa or go out eating,just me hubby and our son.Last time we went to an animalpark,was fun for us and our son,then i cooked his favorit meal.He never wants to invite anybody but his friends and family just come over in the evening,kinda open doors on all our bdays. Maybe depending on the age of your child/ren you could do something special on his birthday together.Something that your hubby also enjoys (fishing,camping or whatever).

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