my husband cheated on me dont know what to do started marriage counseling

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Jodi - posted on 05/03/2014

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This is not something someone on the internet can advise you on. Personally, no amount of counselling would help me accept that my husband had cheated on me, and I'd be out the door in a heartbeat. But I am not you. The counselling may help you decide. But do not stay if you cannot forgive and move on.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 05/03/2014

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Sorry but I would never tolerate a cheating husband. I would never be able to reconcile. No amount of counseling would make me forgive such a betrayal.

Michelle - posted on 05/03/2014

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I personally couldn't get past it. My 1st husband cheated on me.
If you feel that you can forgive him then give it a go, I tried for 2 years after I found out about the cheating but I could never look at him the same. I was repulsed by him so had to leave.

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Leave him. You don't deserve that!! You are a beautiful women and if he can't see that screw him! Some men just don't no what they have till it gone. Be strong!!

Lala - posted on 05/05/2014

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Try counseling first; see if you can forgive him--or if you can't forgive him, if you can at least 'move past' his cheating. Also, find out why he was cheating. Were you two not having sex at all? Too busy? Too tired? Did he feel a need to go elsewhere to have his needs met?

I'm not excusing his behavior at all, but it would help to find out *why* he was cheating. It's up to you whether or not you can look past his transgressions.

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