My husband do not understands me. What should i do?

Jagjeet - posted on 10/26/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I live in a joint family. V r 8 in all. My father in law, mother inlaw, handicap sister in law, divorced sister in law both elder to my husband. I got married in such a big family thinking i vl adjust myself just as i had lived wid my 3 sister i vl live wid my in laws. But it is not that easy. first 2 years of my marriage was terrible. Before d birth of my daughter i was working n i was on maternity leave which i never resumed. I didnt joined as no one supported me to take care of my baby. I have to resign with heavy heart as i didnt hv any option. My husband loves me n my kids but he never tried to understand me. Or may be he do not wanted to understand me. he is most of d time busy in his business. Both of my kids r vry good but many times in public they speak ill words. Kids r over pampered by my sister in laws n do not listen to me. I m not able to instil good behaviour n manners as they always interfere. V help everybody at home but no one helps us.i started swiming clases but left in d middle as again no one looked after my kids. M under high stress as i feel like i m just a servant at home. My husband spend less time with us. Most of the weekends he spend parting with my married sister in laws family. I keep waiting for him most of d days to hv good time together. He is not expressive n do not express love verbally or physically. He is only intersted in sex. Sometimes i feel like ending my life but d future of my kids holds me back. I m in severe depression. My husband is not ready to separate from my inlaws.

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Jagjeet - posted on 10/26/2013

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Thanks, i vl definately sit n sort out d matter wid him.. today is my first day in circles of mom n u r the 1st one to reply..
Again thanks 4 ur reply...

Michelle - posted on 10/26/2013

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If your husband is not ready to leave his birth family and support his own family then he doesn't deserve you.
You need to sit down with him and let him know that since you are your own little family, you really should have a place of your own. You need to get out for the sake of your marriage.

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