MY HUSBAND GETS ANGRY & LEAVES ...

Taffie - posted on 09/25/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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He will get angry and leaves @least every few weeks to go stay with his mom for 2 or 3 days and then come back like he NEVER left. My kids have been acting out and getting way out of control. We argue way to much over things that matter & some that do not.His parents only do for my youngest the most & she is getting harder and harder to deal with. Sometimes when he is gone she stays over there too.I am trying to stay and make this work. But my 11 yr old is getting out of control talks to his dad with such anger and just nasty. I try to tell my husband when you leave -you leave all of us. But anything I bring up is an argument and HIS PARENTS are never wrong !! NEVER as long as we have been together. I have 6 kids 2 with him but we have been together 9 yrs and my other children's dad is deceased. I need help ! input Please

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Ella - posted on 09/25/2012

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Firstly,your husband needs to understand that his children r copying his behaviour,if they see this man cope with life and emotions in this aggressive manner then they will follow suit and act the same,secondly yes ur rite,when he leaves the home,he leaves them too which indeed will stir feelings of resentment towards him and bitterness,also if ur children witness your husband get angry and talk towards u it will do one of two things,eitha make them resent him even more for disrespecting there mother or they will think its acceptable t talk to u in this manner and start disrespecting u,and could later grow into men/woman that domestic violence is ok whichever foot the shoe is on,family therapy could help also he needs to go to his doctor and accept and ask for help with his anger problem,then he can be referred for anger management,or if u feel it's beyond this you could also end the realationship and walk away with ur children,good luck

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Ella - posted on 09/25/2012

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Hmmm I no this probly ain't what you want to hear but.....I'd go!u have 6 children not 1 n it is very very selfish and unfair he doesn't intract with all of them,how long was u together befor last child came along?he really shouldn't be calling u names eitha,if u no that u do good enough with your home and children the it's out of order he tells u that u don't do your share,or u could leave him in charge of 6kids for a week n see how much he gets dun teehee

Taffie - posted on 09/25/2012

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He calls names and then leaves or goes to bed. But @35 I think his mother should tell him to work this out and not in the manner he has. I am to blame to I guess , he claims because I dont work I dont do my share but I take care of 6 kids. I have no family here and his family only wants something to do with our daughter who is 8 not the rest of the kids.

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