Linda - posted on 09/12/2012 ( 7 moms have responded )
My husband gives Flowers, Cake and Balloons for his Ex birthday, Mother day and Valentine day on behalf of his daughter 7 year old when she vists. I do not feel its appropiate. His Ex is not married again. His daughter asks 10 things for her mother he will do all 10 things for his ex. He doesnot control her. I gave suggestion let her daughter make some art and crafts or painting so it will me more personlize to her mom and on top of that his daughter loves art and craftand, painting. And I also told him I don't like you giving her Flowers, Cake and balloons for your ex Birthday and and valentine day on behalf of your daughter. I agree on giving mothers day. But not all events. You could let your daughter do something more creative in place. Buy some art and craft stuff and paints etc...
I am not able to agree on this. Because of all this of these issues our adult realationship is ruining. He says he will do what his daughter asks him to do for her mom. He is very stubborn. I feel he is not accepting the facts that he is divorced. Please help!