My husband going out with his friends while am pregnant

Grace - posted on 04/14/2013 ( 7 moms have responded )

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How should I deal with my husband going out with his friends when I am almost at the end of my pregnancy? I just dont feel secure when I am alone at home.

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Jodi - posted on 04/14/2013

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Is he going far away? Does he have his phone on him and is he answering it? If he is close by and has a phone on him and is "on call", then I don't see the issue.

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Ashley - posted on 04/16/2013

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trust trying not to worry u but i caught my husband doing things when i was pregnant he'll get out of work , go straight to his friends for hours n come home at 11 to sleep i caught him smoking the day after my baby shower and almost left him. had a serious talk and hes been a changed man ever since. hope u dont go threw what i went threw

Ashley - posted on 04/16/2013

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trust trying not to worry u but i caught my husband doing things when i was pregnant he'll get out of work , go straight to his friends for hours n come home at 11 to sleep i caught him smoking the day after my baby shower and almost left him. had a serious talk and hes been a changed man ever since. hope u dont go threw what i went threw

Cc - posted on 04/16/2013

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HAHA Alia....Don't give this poor woman more to worry about!!!!! All you can do is talk to him about making a plan if he is out when you go into labor. Explain to him EVERYTHING you need him to do when it's time. Carry your bag to the car (if you have a car), rub your back while you are having contractions, call family members, ask him what he thinks you should do if you pass out from pain or if (God forbid) you have any complications.....maybe he'll understand that you need him to be home already.

I don't know why I'm giving advice though because my boyfriend also used to go out. Thank goodness he was home when i went into labor...I think. He was actually playing video games with his friends while I was in the next room crying in bed. I had to call his aunt to come over and help. Some men just have no idea. If he won't stay home, make sure you have a support system and plan in place for when you need to go. Even if you need to rely on others.

Just be prepared for him to be out with friends while you're taking care of the newborn at night! Sorry if this sounds discouraging, but good luck superwoman!

Nitishiree - posted on 04/16/2013

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Hi......u can tell him to go to nearby places.............also having a family or friend stay with u when he is out will help........else tell him to stay connected with u on phone when he is away.......dont be stressed everything ll be fine....

DeVonne - posted on 04/15/2013

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What is making you feel insecure?

Is it that you are close to your due date?
If so keep a phone handy just in case you go into labor you can call your husband and 911.

Alia - posted on 04/14/2013

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The best thing to do is either talk to him and tell him how you feel (address it nicely/ calm) or call friend, or family member to be their with you while he's out. Or hire a private investigator to see what he's doing while he's out "with friends" Just kidding don't do that. LOL

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