Thei - posted on 01/25/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
I got married just five monts ago. Prior to that my sister and my husband never gets along. Even before marriage me and my husband always argue over something. Thats y my sister never likes him. She use to tell negative things about him to other family members. Which make them dislike him too. On the other hand i must say that thought me n my husband we always had a fight we love each other. So we got married and I thought that after marriage he will be ok and everything will be alright. But it is not so. He never allow me to go visit my sister. My sister is a sickly girl but if I go n see her then I'll have to cry. Just to prevent me from going he even accuse me of having relationship with my sister husband. He will verbally abuse me so much that sometimes I feel its hard for me to bear. One day my sister called me and asked me if I will go to church the next day if so, then she will send mommy along with her husband to church. Note_my mom is a schizophrenic patient also suffer from frequency of urine. When she gets the urge she can't wait. Therefore someone or the other must be there with her. My sister being sick herself she can't take mom anywhere thats y she call me and ask me if I will go to church the next day if so she will send mommy with her husband to church and while in church I will take care of her. My husband hearing that she will send mommy with her husband got up from his seat and went away to his brothers house. I called him and said let mommy come and she will go back to my sister home after church. He said do as you want. So the next day I got up I went to church met my mom happy to see her but when I got home my husband was in his brothers house he had block my call I can't even communicate. And I know that if I will try to communicate more then all nasty words will fly from his mouth. M stuck I love my husband but I love my sister too especially my mother. And I never wants this things to affect her by any means. M sad sometimes I feel like killing myself. How m I to make my husband understand.