my husband is an alcoholic

Heidi - posted on 01/15/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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i have been married twice with my husband, 2002 and 2010. We have 2 kids, 11rs old and 7months old. He is really good guy most especially with his friends, he drinks every night at our house with his friends until midnight and it bothers me because he actually enjoy the company of other people than being with us. He told me that he will quit if i give birth with our second child, but he got worse. Last sunday 1/13/2013, he was so drunk he left the stove on, and my mom just noticed that its already smoky in the kitchen, so i told him that he left it running, he just screamed at my face and looks like he want to punch me. He left the house that morning up until now. I love him, but i am so tired that i always have to beg for his time with me and the kids, so i texted him to leave for good, but it hurts right now. My son who is 11rs old, finally told me that its okay. Since he was little he always see me and his dad arguing over his drinking habit and it burns my heart because he cries all the time. I dont want my little one to experience the same thing my son experienced. Am i doing the right decision to leave him for good and not accepting him back to the house...Right now, i cant concentrate at work because my eyes are like broken faucet that just keeps running even though you dont want anymore. I am just simple, i just want his time the way he spend it with his friends drinking..

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Amanda - posted on 02/22/2013

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Heidi, how are things? I just wanted to see if you have an update. I have a similar situation and I feel SO alone.

Heidi - posted on 01/15/2013

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thanks sierra, its always good that i have found this forum, it somehow helps me release the pain

User - posted on 01/15/2013

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Getting some help for you and the children would be a very good choice,for this is very hurtfull,and hard to see,for you and the kids..

User - posted on 01/15/2013

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wow,yeah its time for him to take you for real...If you continue to let him do this then he will.Demand that he seeks help or to put himself into a live in program since it sounds pretty serious....Dont except anything except him getting professional help,dont back up on this or listen to any sweet little lies,or let him not do it...its not an option,it has to be....

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