LaShawn - posted on 10/21/2011 ( 5 moms have responded )
My husband and I both are in our thirtys. We've been married for 13 years. We had a small lawn care business together at one time this summer where we spent all our time together. Now he's at work doing painting contract. I am trying to be understanding that because Fall and Winter Seasons hit, he needs a job. The problem is, I'm emotionally stressed out. We never see my husband anymore, me nor his kids. He works from 5p.m-3a.m in the morning. He leaves out at 3:30 p.m. every morning to see if he can beat the traffic and get to work on time. He never hardly has breaks, and when he does, he rarely calls me. I feel so neglected as his wife, lover, and friend. I don't know what to do anymore. It's been two weeks since he's started this job, and things haven't gotten any better. I'm depressed all the time, I'm starting to feel like a single parent. I don't know what to do. I don't want to tell him to quit, he only gets one day off, Sunday. I'm misserable inside. I feel like I'm loosing the love of my life slowly. It's only a matter of time where he may get tired of me and leave. I don't know. Any suggestions?