User - posted on 05/27/2012 ( 9 moms have responded )
I have been married to my husband for going on 8 years, he is a veteran and has been out of the armed forces for about 2 years...Just recently in the last 3 or 4 months he has been smoking oxy codone and heroin, I thought he was just taking pills for his pain. He has disc disease in his back and a shattered shoulder. I just recently found out how bad it really was......I am devistated, we have 2 small children and I love him with all of my heart, but i feel like if i sit around and watch him go on this downward spiral then i am wrong....but i DO NOT want to leave him....if he goes into treatment he will loose his job..and im not even sure he wants help. I dont know if its being messed up from the Army or if its me, I just dont understand why he would do this now. I dont know what to do, part of me wants to leave to see if it will wake him up a little....but then i dont want to raise these kids by myself...what do you do when your perfect little marriage falls apart..I am lost.