My husband left me when i was pregnant with my twins at 6 months. By then i already had my triples and they understand more then my twins. I never really could explain to the twins why he left. Now they are 12 and Madison wants to know. Caitlyn been a little shy about it. But its hard because he live in Flordia has 4 girls name Olivia, Gracie, Farrah, and Mackenzie then he remarried. Madison knows this and Caitlyn. It hurts them both but there more the story. I always told them when they were little that mommy and daddy love them so much but they need a break just like you need a break from school. But they are not little anymore and i know i have to tell what happen. But i'm scared and i know its going to break them. I love my kids and those 2 girls are the light in my eyes like my other 3. How should i tell them or should i tell them now? We just moved to Calfornia and i don't its the right time!

Megan - posted on 10/26/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




How do i tell my girls about there dad and why he left?


Dianna - posted on 10/26/2012




Sorry, I have no answer for you. Wish I could help. Try finding a psychologist to help you walk through the process. Get help from someone who has a degree!

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