My husband of almost 10 years told me that he is not in love with me anymore.

Jamie - posted on 04/16/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )




After 10 years of marriage 2 kids 8 and 5, my husband tells me two days ago he loves me but isn't in love with me anymore and also wants a divorce. He also states he is still very attracted to me. We are very active in shape people and are have intercourse at least ounce a week in our busy lives. He can't give me a reason and isn't willing to work it out. We are Christians and I believe that is not a reason to separate. Especially with 2 children. How do I get through this?


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Michelle - posted on 04/16/2014




Unfortunately, you can make someone love you. At least he has had the courage to tell you that he is no longer in love with you.
I think that if you refuse to separate or try and convince him to stay he will eventually start to resent you and will blame you for him not being able to move on and find happiness.
If he is willing to give it 1 last try then get into counselling and see if that helps but maybe let him know that you should try it and if he still feels the same in say 6 months then you will separate.

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