My husband said it's him or my adult son..........

Elizabeth - posted on 07/30/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )




My 21 year old son,his girlfriend and her 3 kids have been staying with us for 2 months. They are supposed to move tomorrow . Now my son is asking if they can stay another month. My husband ( his dad) said no way . Either they go or I go.. I am so mad . I can understand why he is tired of the situation but how dare he dish out an ultimatum. Don't know what to do tired of it all.


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Leela - posted on 08/04/2013




Agree with your hubby. Enough is enough....btw if you're not careful 2 months will turn into 2 yrs. situation not healthy for anyone...

Firebird - posted on 07/30/2013




I wouldn't have let the girlfriend and her kids move in in the first place, so yeah, I agree with your husband. Something has obviously been going on for the last two months that has made your husband say it's him or them, so it's time for them to make other arrangements.

Ev - posted on 07/30/2013




I have to agree with your husband. They have been there and apparently overstayed their welcome in that two months of time. You have to understand that he is 21 and he is responsible for his own welfare now, not you and his father. Also, why are you putting up his girlfriend and her three kids? Does she not have a job and place to live of her own? You guys can not be supporting them in housing for the rest of your lives. I can see why he would say he wants his son to move on or he will.

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