my husband told me thother night that i cheated on him 30 years ago and our daughter minot be his not sure if it is the pain medicine he takes that he is taken but also not sure if i should forgive him

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Denise - posted on 10/17/2012

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i am not sure if i can still do this but no i never cheated on him have been very faithful not sure if he has. We had one of the marriage that people love now it is awful i am not sure if i even love him anymore

~♥Little Miss - posted on 10/17/2012

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Not really clear still. DID you cheat on him? But I do agree with Jodi. Sorry you are going through such a tough time. Pain meds can really do funky things to a person, and you are right, perhaps he is remembering things he has done. i guess it all depends on whether or not you still want to be with him.

Jodi - posted on 10/17/2012

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Get some professional help. It sounds like you both need it, particularly if you plan on staying together. It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship.

Denise - posted on 10/17/2012

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i was suppose to have cheated on him but the more he talks about it it sounds like he really did the cheating i think he is remembering things from the past and does not no how to handle them and with all the pain medicine he takes i think he gets confused but his words were i cheated on him 30 years ago and our daughter might not be his that is not true and the person i was suppose to cheat with was a scum bag. i am so confused about everything but for the last say 5 or 6 years he has mental abusied me he is for every saying nasty things to me. hope this clears some things up.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 10/17/2012

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huh? *scratching head* he told you YOU cheated on him or HE cheated on you? I don't really understand.....if he cheated on you but you got pregnant....do you mean to ask if it is not his? Really not sure what you are trying to say. Could you clarify?

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