MaxMOM - posted on 09/13/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )
My husband travels a lot for work and is constantly out to dinners and then spends his nights with co-workers in bars until 1 am or later. I always call him and he rejects my calls. when he does return my call he gets aggravated quickly when i mention his actions and question him... I understand he is the big boss and does not want to lose face in front of his employees but I don't understand why he MUST go out every night. Its like he has no self control and is the life of the gatherings. He complains he is developing a gut and he has a gym facility in 4 star hotels (WHY NOT USE THEM). I am home with my lil one 24/7 no me time and when my husband returns home he shuts me out and watches TV. I talk he ignores me. He is a wonderful man, he cares and gives us everything we want but I don't understand the silent treatment when he is home and the rejection when he travels Mon to Fri. I am losing strength and hope in our marriage. I feel like a single parent 24/7 (except that he provides for us). But emotionally he is absent 24/7. I feel so bad for our 12 month old because he is only with me. I get the interpretation when he is home that he doesn't want to deal with us... (he doesn't even change LO diapers anymore, he passes the task to me) we had arrangements that I would have 1 Sunday every 14 days but Never happens. I just don't know what to do anymore. This Monday was LO 1st B-day I drover 1 hr to meet with my family and blow candles (big party coming sunday) My husband yelled and screamed I stole 1st bday from him... I didnt know it was that sentimental to him when I asked him to come home to do alittle bday celebration. HE SAID why could i wait until Sunday... But monday was his b-day, i wanted to see my son happy on his official bday with a small cake. He said he would never forgive me for this and has since treated me extremely bad. Any suggestions?