my husband walked awsy

Helen - posted on 01/11/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )




my husband walk away after 25 yr left me and my son got a flat dont want nothing to do with me he started nit pickin on silly thng like dishwasher ect never came to hosp with me im tearing my hair out his turned 50 every one is shock i dont know what to do ...


Ashley - posted on 01/11/2015




First off Helen I wanna say I'm sorry about your husband leaving you whether it was expected or not. That is hard to swallow and I know you're confused because there were no signs or any real problems. If your husband just turned 50 and ya'll still have a young child at home it may be that he feels like he should be in a different place physically at his age instead of still tied down. That is definetely not your fault or something you can change but rather something he needs to accept and be happy with. That may not even be the reason at all. I'm just thinking from a man's perspective thats a little over middle age. He may have expected at this age in his life that he would be carefree and not have as many responsibilities but the fact is that he does. Sometimes a person is unhappy with themselves and it has nothing to do with anyone else at all. Until you have concrete proof that there is someone else or a good reason to let your marriage go, I would stay strong and pray. Be available if and when he's ready to give you an explanation. Try to be understanding and patient. You never know there could be a number of things he's going through and possibly left to protect you and your son. I hope something works out for the good for you.

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