Tracy - posted on 08/25/2012 ( 13 moms have responded )
After 8yrs together, our 6 yrs of marriage, 5 weeks ago my husband told me he no longer loves me/ has feelings for me. This has completely devistated me because I still very much love my husband. We have a 2yr girl and a 3 1/2yr old boy who are just amazing. Our son has just been diagnosed with a cataract in his left eye and will have to have surgery to remove it in the next few months and I want to focus on that, not breaking up our family before it, this is the only home our kids have ever known....My husband says he is done with me and our marriage and wants to talk terms of divorce...he even has given me 5 pages of terms on custody of children etc.....I feel like he has died and I am mourning him and our marriage...the past year has been hard on us with moving to a new town with no family or friends (move was 2 yrs ago) mulitple things going wrong (freezer, water heater dying) He says he wants to get things over and done with now....how do you divorce someone you are still very much in love with?? And no he won't do counselling or anything...plus I am a stay at home mom who is waiting for my job transfer to come in so I have no income either....any suggestions??