Sarah - posted on 10/21/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
I have been married for 3 years and have a two year old daughter and am 6 months pregnant. I work part tone and spend the remaining time with my daughter.
My husband has always drunk a lot as did I but I have grown up a lot since havering my daughter however he has not. Although he works hard he feels after work he deserves a drink. At weekends he takes cockain ! We would often argue and he would disappear off for a couple of days getting hammered with his mates!
He is quite a switched off person and does not care much for emotions!
At the weekend after I came home from work took Layla out for a play then cooked dinner, my husband came gone and could not eat anything as he was high! I told Jim I was at breaking point but he told me I was a selfish bitch! I told him I did not understand why he would rather get hammered rather then spend time with his beautiful family.
The following morning he never went to work and said he was gonna spend the weekend with jus daughter as I said he did not see her enough, but that afternoon he was also going out for a drink with his mates.
I asked if he was gonna spend any time with me and he says no so I thought enough is enough packed a bag and left!
I left my daughter there as I was in quite a state and did not want to argue with him.
However now he won't let me see her at all. I tried going around the house and he said he would throw me out but I said you can't touch me as I'm pregnant so he took my daughter out instead!
I have tried social services and the police and they both say she is not in danger so they can't help!
I'm going out of my mind I have never spent a day with out her and now I have spent 3.
He is very scary so no one will stand up to him.
Any advice would be very welcome as my heart is breaking and this surly us not helping my pregnancy !