My kids are going to live with their father

G - posted on 05/24/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I know that my kids miss their dad, and I dont ever want to be held responsible for not giving them a chance to live with him. My choice to do this was one that I made with my childrens thoughts included, I do feel very uncertain about how I may feel after they leave to live with him. I know they are in very good hands and he has the financial means to support them as I do not. I feel like an emotional mess, how do I not fall apart? Anyone?

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G - posted on 05/24/2012

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Thank you for sharing..although many moms would not agree w my choice, I appreciate your thoughts, they really help in this time of processing this huge life change for me. :)

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Sounds like: you are normal, as far as emotions go.
you are "Super Mom" as far as your kids go.
Super loving and Super understanding.

As long as their father does not keep you all from seeing each other when it works, you will do ok, just because you have provided the means for your children to get the best care possible.

Congratulations for being Super Mom and for loving your kids so much.
You are an encouragement to me, just to know that there are moms that love their kids so much that they would do anything for the children's best interests.

Medic - posted on 05/24/2012

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You take it one day at a time. Remember that it takes one hell of a mom to know when the best thing for her kids may not be with her all the time. It is one of the most selfless decisions you are making reguarding your kids and you never know what will happen. As long as all things are done out of love the end result is out of our control.

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