Mama D - posted on 06/21/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )
I don't know what to do about my kids dads girl friend. She is over barring, steps on my toes as a mother. ( putting bras on my 6 and 8yr old, puts one kid in a pageant but not the other) Yell's at my kids for crying, even infront of me! My kids love there dad and he is good to them but they don't like her. She is mentally abusive. I stopped the spankings she would try to issue to them. My kids are scared to death of her, but there dad just either allows it or just doesn't see it happening. I need help. I don't know what to do. How do I get him to see. Or get my kids away from her. He refuses to talk to me about the kids he always makes me go through the girl friend. how do I stop that? My situation is a mess and my kids are brought in the middle of it, it's sad... when she gets mad at me she takes it out on my kids.