My kids dads Girl-friend is a nightmare to my kids and I! Please Help!!

Mama D - posted on 06/21/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I don't know what to do about my kids dads girl friend. She is over barring, steps on my toes as a mother. ( putting bras on my 6 and 8yr old, puts one kid in a pageant but not the other) Yell's at my kids for crying, even infront of me! My kids love there dad and he is good to them but they don't like her. She is mentally abusive. I stopped the spankings she would try to issue to them. My kids are scared to death of her, but there dad just either allows it or just doesn't see it happening. I need help. I don't know what to do. How do I get him to see. Or get my kids away from her. He refuses to talk to me about the kids he always makes me go through the girl friend. how do I stop that? My situation is a mess and my kids are brought in the middle of it, it's sad... when she gets mad at me she takes it out on my kids.

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Kristi - posted on 06/22/2013

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Took the words right out of my mouth, Shawnn! Call CPS and get the kids into counseling ASAP so there is documentation. I'm not an attorney and I don't know your custody agreement. However, when I started having serious problems with my daughter's father and his slew of wives and step-children, I just kept my daughter. I didn't let her go back to his house.

My attorney told me that "generally" the police won't get involved with a civil matter, which is what your custody agreement is, unless the child is in danger. She told me to make my ex file in court if he wanted to get our order enforced. That kept them off our backs for awhile. The rest is a long, miserable story that is pretty much irrelevant to your situation at this point but it did finally have a happy ending.

I am so sorry for your children and I hope you are able to find the help you need soon. Thoughts and prayers!

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 06/21/2013

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restraining order, to start...enforceable by local law enforcement

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 06/21/2013

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What's in the court orders?

I'd go back to court and get orders against GF, if it were me.

Good luck

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Mama D - posted on 06/21/2013

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See I mentioned the gf to my lawyer in court and he said they can't make her do anything bc their dads not married to her. That the judge can only make dad behave.


What kind of orders against the gf should I suggest?

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