My kids father

Davitta - posted on 12/11/2015 ( 8 moms have responded )

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My kids father hasn't been in their lives in seven years!!! The state took him off child support and he was owing 14500.00. Because he claimed to be disabled. He's constantly having more kids. I hate my kids are suffering because of his ignorance.

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Michelle - posted on 12/15/2015

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You can't make someone do something they don't want to do. You just need to get on with your life and do the best by your children. Like I said, stop dwelling on the past and what could be, only YOU can give the children the best start in life and thinking about him won't help.

Ev - posted on 12/15/2015

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Then if you have jobs then quit worrying about the father and what he is not doing. You will project that to the kids even without words and you need to get on with life. If you want to press for child support then do so again. But constant thinking about what he should or needs to be doing is not gonna help you.

Ev - posted on 12/15/2015

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In addition to Sarah's post, if he is not having to do support, then you are going to have to find ways to make ends meet. Get a job, get assistence....something. Sitting there going crazy because HE is not doing anything is not going to help your kids or you.

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Sarah - posted on 12/15/2015

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How many kids did you have with this man? You picked him and he turned out not to be Prince Charming. What choice to do you have but to parent your kids for the both of you? if he is disabled and gets any sort of government benefit, your kids should too.

Michelle - posted on 12/12/2015

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You just need to get on with your life and do the best you can for your children.
Stop worrying about your ex and what he's doing, it's not healthy for you or your children.

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