My kids skin color

Mswilson - posted on 08/30/2015 ( 6 moms have responded )

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I have two daughters by the same guy and he's like ass hell and my first daughter is lighter than him and look like both of us and my second child is brown skin but have his lips and my daughter big eyes but he don't think the second child is his cause his other two daughters look like him and my second child don't wat should I do cause this is crazy to me

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Sarah - posted on 08/31/2015

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It does not matter if he is around or not. You petition the court for a DNA test and they will serve him notice. If he is listed as the father is the BC he is considered the father unless proven otherwise. I have four kids. My husband is 100% Ukrainian, 3 of our 4 look just like him; dark complexion, tan beautifully, green eyes and light brown hair. The 4th: fair skinned, freckled, dark curly hair and eyes dark brown, almost black. Our marriage has not been without its bumps but if he ever accused me of trying to pass a child by as his, when she was not his? Oh, heck no! Trust is first and foremost.
Now if there has been some admitted infidelity in the past then a DNA test should be done to answer all questions. If we based what a baby looks like to determine the father, wow would it be a mess.
If you are 100 % sure of the paternity then do a DNA test. Let the court track him down and if he doesn't want to parent, he can at least financially support his kids

~♥Little Miss - posted on 08/31/2015

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If my husband ever truly thought one of our kids was not his, I would have done one asap, then left him. If he thinks I am cheating, and having other mens babies, then we have serious issues, and the baby would just be one of many. What I am saying is, there is more to your story.

Genes come out in different ways. Just because one baby looks just like him, does not mean the next will (as long as they actually have the same parents.

Did you indeed cheat?

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Michelle - posted on 08/31/2015

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Genetics are a lot more complicated than that. It all depends on what traits the child gets from what parent. If you have 2 very different looking people then children can look like either one or a mixture of both.
It's too hard to go in to it all here but there is always a 1 in 4 chance of a child getting any one of each genetic trait/look.

Mswilson - posted on 08/31/2015

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Thank y'all I just through of u already had a really like baby the other baby will come out looking the same

~♥Little Miss - posted on 08/30/2015

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You can certainly have a paternity test done on the child and father.

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