Zainab - posted on 10/07/2016 ( 20 moms have responded )
My mother in law want to boss over me all the time but she knows i wont agree on anything which does not suit my 10 months old daughter. My inlaws were staying in other city but have come to stay in our 2bhk flat since 2 months approximately. Now the problem is ever si ce i have got engaged n married to my hubby i have seen my MIL emotionally blackmailing my hubby to do what she likes by crying or saying sentences which proves her to be sensitive(what she is not in real) and also use to say things which could prove that I do not talk to her properly or do not give my little one to her to play with. In result my hubby used to figth with me. Now my mother in law has started torturing me by calling my little one with different funny names n also hit her infront of me... Not harder but just to make me feel insecure. Now today she bite my baby on her arm so hard that my daughters face changed and she was about to cry. My baby was in my hubbys arms, still he didnt say anything to her. When i checked opening my babys sleeves, her arm was red in the area my MIL bite. Although my baby was normal not crying nothing, but she felt pain wen my mil bite her. The worst part is that I had to remain silent but couldnt stop myself.. I took my daughter and went to other corner of the room. I need some guidence how should i react. My motherly feeling is saying i should raise a complain against her but i dont want to spoil relationships as well for lifetime. Tonight i am for sure going to sit and oppose this act. But what i should say to keep my baby safe the next time. I am feeling like crying and am getting too much of stress that i couldnt say anything to my MIL. Plz tell me wat to do?