my mom and i can not get along

Jackie - posted on 08/12/2017 ( 2 moms have responded )

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me and my mom can not get along and she is asking me to do things for her everyday and I do but it is getting on my nerves and then I yell scream and cuss at her and she tells me she will tell my stepdad that I am being mean and when she does he takes her side and he takes my stuff and I am so tired of this she never gives me time to do stuff myself and when she does not she always says she is sorry but she keeps doing and when I tell her I am sorry for the things I do and she tells me why do you keep doing it I am tired of her acting all bitchy and mean to me all the time

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Dove - posted on 08/12/2017

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There was another post almost identical to this one not too far back...

Stop yelling and screaming and cussing at your mom. Do things the first time you are asked and if you find yourself getting upset perhaps let her know that you are getting upset and you need a few minutes to yourself to calm down and then you will do what you are asked. You may need to sit down together and calmly discuss all the things that you need to do and all the things that she needs you to do and find if there is a way to work it out together. Acting like a brat and a jerk is not going to help your situation, but will only continue to make it worse.

Michelle - posted on 08/12/2017

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You sound like a spoiled little teen.
She is your Mother and it's her job to get you ready for when you leave home. Obviously, she has to keep asking you to do things because you don't actually think to do them yourself. If I didn't tell my oldest children to do their laundry, they wouldn't remember to do it and would have dirty clothes.
I suggest you stop cussing at her for starters!!! That is NOT going to get you anywhere.

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