my moms being acused of hiting my daughter?

Margaret - posted on 05/12/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )

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i don't know what to do. will dhs take my child from me? my mom didn't even hit my child it's all a lie.

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Margaret - posted on 05/12/2012

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it makes me think that to. but unless my daughter tells the dhs worker that it's all going to be up to him on what happens. and i know this sounds mean being that she is my mother but i'm not going to force my daughter to tell the dhs worker. not if she's to scared to.

Medic - posted on 05/12/2012

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They do have to look into everything, although they sometimes seem to pick and choose unfairly. Just be forthcoming and honest, try to relax and stay calm but do not hide your emotions. I guess just be real. You will be ok and so will your daughter. The fact that your daughter told you her teachers forced her to say it was her grandmother makes me think they were trying to cover up their bad.

Margaret - posted on 05/12/2012

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thanks. i have told her that. and thats when she told me about the teachers doing it. my mom is still watching my girl and the dhs worker didn't say she couldn't so i don't know whats going to happen. i have an appointment to meet the worker on monday.

Medic - posted on 05/12/2012

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Tell the truth, tell your daughter to tell the truth and as long as she does you will not be mad or let anything happen to her.

Margaret - posted on 05/12/2012

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no but my mom does babysit her while i work. the teachers at her school presured her into saying her grandma smacked her and gave her the bruise they where asking about. but my daughter keeps telling me some of her teachers gave her the bruise. i don't know what to do i don't want my family riped apart over a lie. and at the same time i love my daughter so as long as i don't lose her i think i can cope.

Medic - posted on 05/12/2012

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Well do you live with her? How did the accusations come to be? What happened?

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