S. - posted on 04/17/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )
I was utterly gob smacked, I asked my daughter if she'd had a good day and she said eventful, so I asked why? She said her friend thought she was pregnant! Her friend is 13 years old and had had un protected sex with her bf, my daughter then said her friend did a test but she wasn't sure about the result so wants to do another one.
I went on a huge lecture, Under age sex, un protected sex that kind of thing, my daughter said the friend won't tell her mum as she thinks she'll go mad and the friend said if she is pregnant she will just get an abortion, me on another rant "lecture" abortions arnt birth control,living with it all your life, what about S.T.I's, dose the friend think the hospital won't tell the mum when she's had a abortion (I am all for the woman's own choice on abortion) but at 13 there babies themselves.
Me and my daughter are close and I try and handle things well as a lot of sex questions are popping up by things she hear's at school (she's used to me ranting on by the way) i hope by my advise she goes gives her friend some and I don't know the girl. It's shocked me and tbh I think it's shocked my daughter too. I told her that if she ever feels she can't come to me to please go to her aunties that will help her and give her adult advice.