my new husband and my son dont get along

BETTY - posted on 08/08/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I recently remarried my 1st husband and at first he tried to get along with my son but my son tried the opposite im in the middle don't know what to do? any advice?

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 08/08/2013

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I cannot say I would blame your new husband for being aggravated by a free loader.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 08/08/2013

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Quite honestly the way you posted this, I thought your son would be a pre teen. He is a full grown adult. Glad he is more respectful of you, but really that is not enough. Boy needs a job. If he doesn't want one, he needs to be in school If he doesn't want that, he needs a dose of reality, and get kicked out. Sounds like he needs some tough love to motivate his ass.

BETTY - posted on 08/08/2013

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his 20 and I got remarried to my 1st because we got married 1st time when we were 17&18 kids then got back 30 years later, my son is 20 not going to school, not working my husband is a good man is just not use to the behavior of my son he has 3 kids 2 sons one finished college one in college and his daughter past in a car accident last year in florida, ive seen big changes in my son by just having my husband there he respects me more no cursing anymore clean room and helps around the house but don't want to work??? and he is a good looking kid so I don't understand?
and no he is not the bio father my sons father have never been in his life we got separated when my son was 3

~♥Little Miss - posted on 08/08/2013

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Is he the bio father? I never understand why people remarry an ex. You divorced them for a reason. My mom did this, and of course it did not work out.

I would sit down as a family and discuss the issues and work them out. Figure out solutions. How old is your son?

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