LaToya - posted on 01/14/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
This is my first time submitting my story and I am hoping I'm not in this alone on what I am about to ask; I am a divorced, single mother with an amazing nine year old son. Recently, my son has been wanting to stay with his dad and I am worried that my son's father will wipe me off the face of the earth! Let me give you a background of his dad; irresponsible, and will brainwash my son about me in a negative way just to look like he has been there from day 1. I learned my lesson from a previous incident that I let my son stay with his dad for the summer and his dad spreaded a rumor of me not wanting my son anymore and that he was going to take me to court to gain full custody!!! I had to remold my son back to reality due to his dad saying negative things about me to his family and did I mentioned we don't get along at all! My exhusband is what I called person that is easily influenced by others to make decisions for him. I am hurt and sad by the fact that my son wants to leave me. I know what is best for my son but at the sametime I don't want look like a bad mom for not granting my son's request. After all the negative lies, I stil to this day let my son see his dad every other weekend and let him to go his dad' s for the summer. It took alot of prayer and strength to forgive his dad for what he done too me...