my oldest daughter abandoned her first two kids at 2 and 4 now 15-17

Mikeandbri - posted on 09/20/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )

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well she married a drug Attic, Tiffany my daughter loves the weak ones that she can control..he came home 2 weeks after faithlyn 3 birthday born march 3 2009,,, he shot at them with a 357 mag gun and missed BUT IF HER OLDER KIDS HAD BEEN THERE I SURE WITH ROOM BEING SO SMALL ONE OR BOTH TEENAGERS WOULD HAD DIED, THERE FATHER CHRIS QUILL TOOK TIFFANY BACK TO COURT FOR THE TEENAGERS TO NOT TO BE ABLE TO LEAVE THIS STATE NOR SEE JERAN,,, JUDGE ASKED HER FOR A DRUG TEST ,TIFFANY ADMITTED SHE WOULD NOT PASS,,SO JUDGE MADE ME SUPERVISE VISITS MY ME THE GRANDMOTHER,, AND I WASN'T EVEN THERE....THIS WAS DURING THANKSGIVING AND CHRISTMAS,,,,THEY RUINED THE HOLIDAYS FOR MY HUSBAND AND I AND FAITHLYN TESTING TO EACH OTHER WHOLE SITTING RIGHT BESIDE ONE ANOTHER,,, SO YES I KNOW FOR A FACT FROM TIFFANY AND FAITHLYN THAT SHE HAD FAITHLYN PEE FOR HER NO QUESTION,, THAT NIGHT CAUSE THREE HOLES WENT RIGHT THREW LIVING ROOM WALL INTO TEENAGERS ROOM. WELL THIS IS WAS SOUTH Carolina,MYRTLE BEACH. MAGISTRATE IN VA HAD S.C.911 CALL RECORDING SENT TO VA,,YOU CAN HEAR ALL THREE SHOTS.. WELL TIFF NEVER WENT TO COURT TO PRESS CHARGES IN SOUTH CAROLINA,, THERE STATE DOES NOT TAKE OVER ,,IF VICTIM DOES NOT SHOW IN COURT ITS DISMISSED, BUT HE DID PULL 48 DAYS FOR RESISTING ARREST BRING TARAZED 3 TIMES.. MEANWHILE MOTHER CALLED ME AND PAPA TO MEET HER IN ROCKINGHAM NC AND TAKE FAITHLYN HOME WITH US,,WE HAD NOTHING BUT THE CLOTHES ON HER BACK. I MADE HER A PALLET BE SIDE MY SIDE OF THE BED,,, SHE STAYED WITH US THE WHOLE SUMMER MOTHER NEVER CALLED PICS ON FB LOOKED LIKE SHE WAS ACTING 19 AGAIN BAR HOPPING FROM BAR TO BAR,,,THEN WHEN HE GOT OUT FB SHOWS THEM TWO ASTING AS IF THEY ARE ON THEIR SECOND HONEYMOOD,,,AFTER SAYING SHE WAS DONE WITH HIM AND WE SEE THESE PIC ON FB,,, WELL SHE STAYED THERE TILL OCT 2014 WORKED AT JOES CRAB SHACK,,SHE BRINGS jERAN THE FATHER WHO TRIED TO KILL THE BABY AND HER TO DANVILLE VA TO PICK HER UP AND TAKE HER BACK...TO MYRTLE BEACH... I TRIED EVERYONE I COULD THINK OF TO HELP ME KEEP THE CHILD HERE AND SAFE,, THATS HOW DANVILLE MAGISTRATE GOT THE RECORDING OF THE 3 SHOTS FROM A NEIGHBORS 911 CALL,,HAD A CHILD PROTECTING SERVICE WOMEN TRYING TO HELP ME ,,SHE WAS GOING TO HIDE US,, BUT VA HAS NO JURISDICTION , SO MAGISTRATE SAID THAT I COULD GO TO JAIL FOR KID NAPPING EVEN THOUGHT I HAD LETTER TO TAKE HER FOR ANY MEDICAL CARE .. SHE WAS THERE 1 MONTH AND BROUGHT HER BACK TO US WHILE SHE WORKED FROM MARCH TO OCTOBER AGAIN, WE BOUGHT HER BEDROOM SET CLOTHES SHOES ENTERTAINMENT ENROLLED HER IN MOUNT VERNON DAY CARE HALF A DAY 3 DAY A WEEK WHEN SHE WAS 3 AND THEN 4 DAYS TILL 12 WHEN SHE WAS 4 ,,,MOTHER CAME BACK WITH FATHER AGAIN AND MOVED IN MY MOTHER 'S RENTAL TRAILERS OFF MAYFIELD RD IN VIRGINIA,,, STAYED THERE AND WE WERE KEEPING FAITHLYN STILL TAKING HER TO SCHOOL ,,GETTING HER HAIR TRIMMED WHEN I HAD MY OWN APPTS, TOOK HER TO DENTIST KOOL SMILES, AND DOCTORS DR GIBSON...WELL I HELPED TIFFANY GET A JOB AT A RESTAURANT GOLDEN LEAF BISTRO,, NOW JUDGE SHE HAS ALWAYS BEEN A GOOD WORKER,,SHE HAD NO KIDS THEN ,,NOW SHE HAS FAITHLYN SO SHE STILL STAYED WITH US 90% OF 2014 AND 2015 TILL July,,, SHE WOULD CALL AND SAY SHE MISSES fAITHLYN FOR US TO BRING HER HOME,,,WELL WE ARE IN Greensboro N.C. EATING SUPPER,,SO WE LEAVE AND TAKE HER HOME AND DARN IF SHE DOESNT PASS HER OFF TO SOME ONE ELSE,,YES SHE REALLY MISSED HER!!! THE A CASEY WITHERFIELD JUST GET OUT OF JAIL FOR ARSON, WITHIN A WEEK HE AND HIS KIDS HAVE MOVE IN AND TIFFANY IS TELLING THEM TO CALL THEM THEIR SISTERS, ITS 3 GIRLS THE OLDEST IS OR WAS 13 AND 6" TALL COMES IN THE ROOM NEVER MET ME BEFORE SUCKING HER THUMB AND A PIECE OF BLANKET THAT WAS SO STAINED IT WAS SICKING,,,WHEN SHE WENT BACK IN KITCHEN I ASKED,,," TIFF WAS SHE THE ONE YOU SAID SUCKED HER THUMB " NOW FAITHLYN JUST TURNED IN MARCH AND YES SHE SUCKS HER TWO FINGERS AND RUBS HER NOSE WHICH SHE HAS STOP DOING IT HERE,,BUT WHEN EVER FAITHLYN CAME FROM VISITING HER MAMA SHE WAS POOPING AND PEEING IN HER PANTS AFTER WE HAD POTTIED TRAINED HER,,SO BACK TO SQUARE ONE AGAIN AND AGAIN,,,CAUSE WHEN EVER SHE VISITED HER MAMA SHE NEEDED POTTY TRAINING AGAIN,,,WHEN WE FIRST GOT HER THEY FEED HER NOTHING VBUT OODLES AND NOODLES WITH HER FINGERS,,,WE SHOWED HER HOW TO HOLD YOUR SILVERWARE,,hER AND i ALWAYS LAYED OUT HER CLOTHES THE NIGHT BEFORE BUT SHE NEEDED TO LEARN HOW TO DRESS HER SELF,,JUST LIKE LAST YEAR,,, THIS PASS AUGUST I BELIEVE OUR LAST TIME SEEING HER . WHO EVER COULD TIE THERE SHOES GOT TO GO TO A PIZZA PARTY,, POOR BABY TOLD ME SHE DIDNT GET TO GO,,,I SAID RIGHT THEN GO GET A PAIR OF YOUR LACE UP SHOES GRANDMA'S GOING TO TEACH YOU NOW,,,,, SHE DID IT AND HER HAPPINESS O HER FACE WAS PRICELESS,, IVE GOT IT,,, OK NOW FOR THE DANGER SHE HAS BEEN PUT THREW,,,, PICTURE OF LIKE 10 BAGGIES LAYING ON DINING ROOM TTABLE YES SHE IS WITH HER ENTRUSTING FATHER AGAIN SHE HAD BEEN HERE 2 WEEKS WHY HE HAD TO PICK HER UP FIRST IS BEYOND ME,,,i HEARD HIM ON THE PHONE SAYING 6 MAN YOUR KILLING ME,,,WELL WE WERE RIGHT ABD WE BLAME HE MOHER JUS AS MUCH FOR ALLOWING HIM TO GE HER WHIL3E MAKING A DRUG DEAL

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Sarah - posted on 09/23/2015

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there is too much conflicting info in this post to give any advice except slow down and rewrite ti with just the facts and first names. You said your daughter abandoned two kids? I only read about one. Also, they won't make you the supervisor of visitation without meeting you and getting your consent. If you believe someone is tampering with a drug test by substituting urine, you need to report the crime. How did the 3 gunshots get recorded, did someone just happen to be on the phone with 911? Very confusing, sorry I can't offer advice.

Raye - posted on 09/23/2015

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I didn't make it through the first half of this. Too hard to read.
I agree with Shawnn. Talk to a lawyer.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/22/2015

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I can't make any sense of this, but you need to take full names out, you need to NOT mention specific businesses, etc.
If your daughter asked you to watch her child, but did not grant legal custody, nor was legal custody ever judicially granted, then you do not have the right to the child.
What you may do at this point is continue to request welfare checks on the child, keep in contact with child services in the area that she is in, and make sure that they know that you are available to take the child, should they ever find her in danger.
Other than that, I can't make much sense. Without punctuation, or even paragraph breaks, and typing in all caps makes for a difficult read.

Contact a family attorney in your area to see if you can even get grandparents rights.

Cayla - posted on 09/22/2015

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You are going to have to do a lot of research in your area where you live. Contact a child social worker where you live and see what can be done about your grand child and where she lives, I know they have laws for grand parents who want to see their grand children and especially if you have proof that you halped raise her for more than a year they can grant you visits, so even if she doesn't get to live with you at least you still get to see her and know she is ok. As far as the drugs, I would see how you might be able to get them busted for that. If the state feels like the child is not safe they will contact the next of kin to see if they can take the child, but they might not give her to you if she doesn't have her own bedroom and bed. But write down a bunch of questions and ask them what you need to do to get your grand baby and any information they can give you to help you. Because if you cant get her, the state will put her in the system and you might never see her again.

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