Kimberly - posted on 04/02/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )
I lost my kids' dad 6 years ago this coming June, and when he died my oldest son lost his will to live and got involved with smoking pot. I met a guy a year later and we ended up getting married 2 years ago. I found out after we married that he is also an addict, except he was not just smoking pot but meth as well. My oldest son started taking pills, any kind of pills, and then moved on to meth, cocaine. I found out my husband was doing drugs with my son. I moved out of our home last May and left my husband. My son continued to do drugs, my husband hasn't gotten help, but every time I ask for a divorce he refuses to get one, saying he is going to change. My son blames me for the way he is because I am still married to the husband. He (husband) doesn't live with us, so he isn't around us, but my son still goes and hangs out with him and does drugs. So how is this my fault that he is still doing drugs with him? My son's friends all do drugs, so even if I got a divorce and never saw the husband again, my son would still be doing exactly what he is doing now. I have carried guilt around for several years with this kid.