My partner left me for a young girl while I'm pregnant!

Ashleigh Jenna - posted on 05/22/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I'm desperate for any advice and help. I'm 24 years old and my ex is 26, my ex and I were together 3 1/2 years and I was so in love and he seemed so too. We never had and trust issues things were great until about a year ago he developed an alcohol addiction around a time he was having problems through the courts with his 7 year old son. He has been dad to my daughter who is now 4 and they've always been so close so the break up has affected her also. Our relationship got to a bad stage in the last 6 months as I tried so hard to get him help etc and it got to the point I was so depressed and bitter. When I found out we were pregnant I was so excited and he seemed ecstatic also then in my 8th week of pregnancy we had an argument and he packed up and left. He met a 17 year old at a party within a week (he's never been one to go out) and a few days later they're official and it's all over Facebook. I was devastated, the worst feeling. However he did still contact me and a week ago broke up with her to try make amends with me and stayed here for a week but after a minor disagreement he fled and that same day picked her up and moved her in with him and has completely cut me off. The last things he said were he's lost all feelings for me, he's in love with her and she's the best thing that's happened to him along with bragging how they've already talked babies. They've only known each other 5 weeks!! I keep hoping he will come to his senses and come home and be a family but it just doesn't look that way. What do you all think? I am lost at how to move on I've tried counselling and I don't feel any better

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Gena - posted on 05/23/2014

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Think of it this way,do you really want a guy that left you pregnant for a 17yr old?You deserve a better guy,one thats treats you with respect and like a queen!Dont let him make you feel miserable.You will do ok,just hold your head up high!Good luck

Ashleigh Jenna - posted on 05/22/2014

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I must also add that at first for the first 2 weeks I was a real mess and his new girlfriend messaged me saying sorry for how I'm feeling but she loves him, I did call her a home wrecker etc and she put on this big mature act saying I'm acting like her shoe size and how she's too mature to deal with me etc. sorry just noticed I posted this 4 times my stupid iPhone!

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