my passed away on the 14th august of mitrocondrial disease i miss him so much and can't stop crying
Teresa - posted on 09/30/2009
first of all i want to say i am deeply sorry for your lost. I can imagine the pain you indulge daily. we . I never been through that pain but I can tell you one thing, that angel is in a better place. keep your head up and ask that lord to touch you and release all those tears so that your life would be more motivated in the right direction. god bless you and your family protect you and guide you all
Ivory - posted on 09/30/2009
im sorry for your lost. i will keep you in my prayers. god will shine down on you and your family. It will heal over time. stay prayed up and give it to god. He is the source of your life no matter what battles you may face in this life. He will be there for you. God bless you and your family.
Kellie - posted on 09/28/2009
It's ok to cry that is a part of the grieving process. But remember that god will not put no more on you than you can bare. I can't say that i know how you are feeling becuz i have never been thru this but you are in my prayers.
Thandiwe - posted on 09/28/2009
Hey... all i can say is that May the Good Lord be with you in this trying moment. I can't really relate to it coz i have not lost a child but have lost brothers and sisters and the pain is too much.I know for sure that he is in a better place away from the pain of this world. I pray that the almighty God strenthens you always. I will keep you in my prayers. Love you always ..
Alison - posted on 09/28/2009
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I unfortunately lost a little boy too, his name was Liam. He passed away from SIDS the day before eight months and I miss him every day. I wish to give you encouraging words, to tell you the grief goes away, but it really doesn't. The best you can do is just live life day to day, and it will eventually get better. Something that helped me a lot was counseling, group and private. Also, my family was a great support system for me, and yours will be too. Be strong, be better, and don't feel guilty when you start to be happy again, you should be. I hope what I've said gives you hope that there is light at the end of the tunnel. :)
Jenna - posted on 09/28/2009
I lost my daughter in 2004 to SIDS. Its ok cry, cry and cry and cry. I still cry, typing this message I am crying. Talk about him, and talk and talk, Even if people dont want to hear it ( which is usually because they dont know what to say or how to react)talk about him. Everyone will say that it get easier, it dosnt, you will how ever figure out how to cry a little less and smile a little more. If you need someone to listen or to cry with, please do not hesitate to add me to your friends list, you are not alone.
Angela - posted on 09/28/2009
Im sorry for your lost, I can't imagine how you feel. I know God wouldn't plan this way if your not as strong as everyone! Its very hard to loose a child but God has his way not making your son suffer more. Give time to grieve cuz it won't be easy and you'll hurt for as long as you live. Just keep your faith and know that God is always there to help you and your family. If you need someone to chat...feel free...Take care and God Bless
Jenni - posted on 09/28/2009
If you ever need to talk just send me a message I have ben through this not only did i lose my son but my first 2 children were killed by theyre father so im telling you i have ben there its not easy to deal with and nobody understands unless they themselves have ben through it so many people say the wrong things I still cry everynight for the loss of my children
Jenni - posted on 09/28/2009
I have ben through losing a child I lost my son on fathers day of 08 he was 28 days old I just want to let you know keep your head up people can keep sayen it will get better but you know yourself it will never get better just easier to cope with I have ben through it so I know you dont want to hear things like they are in a better place or they are better off cuz how is it better off with them not with us you need to get councling right away because the longer you wait the more it will eat you up and you could end up like me and not be able to work cuz you are afraid your other children are going to die to
Michelle - posted on 09/28/2009
No amount of words or a shoulder 2 cry on can take away yr pain. My heart truly goes out to you & family (but especially you). I teared when I read yr status & i'm sure many others who read this will do so too. Always remember him for the times you both had together. Let the tears flow...as long as you want...as long as you need to.
Christy - posted on 09/28/2009
A friend once told me that a child is forever safe in the arms of Jesus. She gave me a figurine of a baby laying atop a cloud. I imagine that cloud being the hands of Jesus... I have a sense of peace in that image. I believe in God. I don't think you should try to stop the tears. We were given the ability to cry and grieve for a reason. Love your son, miss your son, hold every memory of your son, know others relate to you and grieve with you. But, do seek an image of peace... it will be in that image that your heartache will begin to ease.
Laura Lynn - posted on 09/28/2009
I pray that God gives you peace and strength. That He holds you and your little ones tight in love and I do pray that you know that your little man is not in any pain any more and smiling at you from up above. May God Bless you and keep you.
I am so sorry....that is heart-breaking news. I can't begin imagine the pain you are experiencing.
I hope you can find a support group to join with others who are going through, or who have experienced the same as you. I think you really need to be with people who understand your insanely deep loss.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Simone - posted on 09/28/2009
I am so sorry to hear about precious boy, no mother of father should ever have to go through this, you and your boy will be in my thoughts, you wont be able to see how things will get better but they will day by day, be strong, god bless xx
I'm sorry for your lost too....do you have a support network around you that you can talk to? It's been such a short time and talking and crying will help you. Talk with your doctor, meds may help you in the short term. I know nothing will replace your boy and remembering will help you heal x
Tabbitha - posted on 09/28/2009
The hurt will never go away but will be managed over time. It may very well have been for the best although it is hard to imagine that now. It is definetly okay to cry and scream and feel hatred. Try to surround yourself with your support system. Our love and prayers are extended to you.
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