my problam is her dad wonts jont castady but he lives in portugal... help!!!

Sasha Jade - posted on 10/12/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Her dad lives in portugal and wontes joint castady. But I dont no if that can be done. He wose a vilant man and never provided for her I would have to work all the time, I got fed up so cam back to england, olltho we had awer problames he wose a good dad and I wont him to see her but becoues I dont have castady of my daughter I dont wont to go back to portugal becouse im skerd he mite stop me caming back to england. So he asked if we code have joint castady but I dont think it is possabol.. whot do I do?? HELP!!

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Jodi - posted on 10/23/2013

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Well, you need to talk to a lawyer and make sure you have your paperwork in order. Then he can't do that.

Sasha Jade - posted on 10/23/2013

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He does no im here. But because I don't have custody of her im skerd that wen I go back so he can see her that hhe will fkip and not let me com back

Jodi - posted on 10/12/2013

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Did you have his permission to go back to England (it sounds like you didn't)? Unfortunately this is one of the drawbacks of having a baby with someone in another country - you can't just up and leave with the child because you've had enough. There is something called The Hague Convention, and if you did not receive the father's permission to remove your child from Portugal, you actually abducted the child and he could have it ordered that the child be returned to Portugal. Permanently. It happens. I would very much suggest you discuss your situation with a lawyer, because this could be far more complicated and serious that you could imagine.

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