My sister.

Jack - posted on 10/14/2015 ( 9 moms have responded )

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Alright, short story. My sister had a baby now my mom, brother, aunt. (We live in the same house) we have to take care of it now... She wakes me up from my sleep causing me to be grumpy then she takes things I paid for in my room and then my mother says "She was using it you are so selfish" she takes it without even asking.. She always hits me and my family and the funny thing about it when she hit me I got sick of it and I tried to gently grab her but she ran and tripped on her 200$ tablet that her mother provided for her and hit her head on the wall near by my mom just decided to punch me because she thought I did it.. She always defends her I feel like she just isn't my mother any more I'm starting to hate her and my stupid sister.. Her mother dropped her off right now as I was sleeping and I woke up and she stole my shades (Thank god she didn't break it) and she just steals too much.. And my mom still gets mad at me for her stealing she say's I'm just being selfish.. When in actuality all she had to do was ask I remember watching a movie finally getting home and I sat down in the dining room I heard my mom and Joy (The baby) she was washing her hands and she was told to put something up and I decided to get up to go to my room still upset from my last interaction with my mom but as I get up Joy just decides to look at me and my mom came around looking like she's pissed as hell and said "WHY IN THE HELL ARE YOU BLOCKING HER OFF" I stood there in shock because there was so much space around me so I explained to my mother, she just got mad and stood there now at this moment I wanted to chok- never-mind so what happened next just pissed me off even more my mom said "Joy put it up" and Joy said "Jack is blocking the way" the finally, my mother gained some common sense through her thick skull and said "There is so much space just go pass him" She obeyed I just went into my room. So, moms.. What do you think is she getting to defensive of her? Feels like she just doesn't care about her she always defends her she's 3 and cry's if she can't get something her way if she wants my brother to leave and go down stairs my mom tells my BROTHER to go downstairs.. My sister ruined my life and If I get mad at Joy my mother would attack me and say "She's just a girl!" But when things didn't go my mothers way and Joy argued with her I said "She's just a girl" She got so pissed she almost put me out and sent me packing but she sent me to my room... As I speak right now... Joy as one of my pillows.. I don't think I should mess with it because my mom will kick my as- great, the little brat is up now. She's looking towards my way...!

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Raye - posted on 10/14/2015

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Until you're an adult, your mother is responsible for you. She has chosen to also be responsible for your sister and her daughter. So, sorry, but it sucks to be you. Kids take things. Kids break things. It's not fair that your mom takes the little girl's side on everything, because the child should learn to behave properly. And if your mom is hitting you, that may be considered abuse. If you grab or hit the little girl then that is abuse also. It sounds like your family could benefit from some counseling to try to make the living arrangements tolerable for everyone in the house.

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Sarah - posted on 10/15/2015

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I agree, go to the school counselor or the school nurse and tell them you are being assaulted at home. If you have been hit, by an adult in your home you have been assaulted. The nurse and counselor will know what to do to get you help.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 10/14/2015

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Jack, talk to your guidance counselor about what's going on at home. They really can help you!

Jack - posted on 10/14/2015

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That seems great, Well. Thanks for your help guys. I find a solution I'm basically just going to ignore everybody seems to be correct so far.

Jack - posted on 10/14/2015

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Yes, from my sister I thought I mention they both.. Nevermind I thought it incuded that.

Dove - posted on 10/14/2015

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Oh wait... I thought you were getting hit and having stuff stolen from you by your sister... since you said she had a baby I didn't realize the child was already 3.... Sorry, missed all that. How old ARE you exactly that you are fighting w/ a 3 year old?

Dove - posted on 10/14/2015

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Well, obviously it's scary if you are a child... I didn't say to move out if you were not an adult... but if you WERE an adult then you should have a job and be fully capable of living on your own.

Seeing as how you say you are a child... that's why I said speak to the guidance counselor at school.

Dove - posted on 10/14/2015

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If you are an adult... move out. If you are a child... talk to your school guidance counselor about everything that is going on and they will involve the authorities.

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