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Mylitta - posted on 04/28/2016 ( 24 moms have responded )

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I let my son go visit his dad he was pose to been came back in january i sent the money an everything but it didn't happen his farther kept making excuses he gave me a false address an everything his name not on the birth certificate or anything my son is on my case for benifits an everything i called the police department in georgia marietta they said its nothing they can do i live in detroit michigan im a very good mother my kids has everything they pose to have my son is two is there anything i can do to get my son back

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Dove - posted on 04/30/2016

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I was just trying to understand what you were saying and meaning... That is all.

I'm glad you're going to get him back.

Mylitta - posted on 04/30/2016

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I know what i said we had communication he was in the process of moving etc once i saw almost a month ago he stop responding etc i proceed to do what i had to do i was being nice trying to let him bring him back but that got me no where so i seek help n it took two wks for me to get justice i dnt care how other ppl look at it or see it as no one is here in my shoes to see what been going on i have all evidence on me trying to get my son so yes it took time thats what happen when u go through court legal aid etc so i called news an went over some heads an it worked if i wasnt trying to get my son i wouldn't have created this page searching for answers so now that i was correct an got great advice i can get my son back home so im raising money to do so n i thank god for everything

Dove - posted on 04/30/2016

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You said he was supposed to come back in January... it is now the end of April. When you posted 2 days ago you said the police wouldn't help you... and now they will. Which any logical person would take to mean sometime in the past 2 days you actually finally contacted the right people to get your son....

Dove - posted on 04/30/2016

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It took you 4 months to finally contact the right people at the police station?

Lady... why didn't you do that 4 months ago if you wanted your kid so bad?

Mylitta - posted on 04/30/2016

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Don't have to do any of that tlk to police n my state an his an they daid its kidnapping n its criminal matter he has no proof showing he has custody of him nor showing he the father police made him leave his job n take them to my son asked for all paper work n he couldn't provide it he is under supervision cnt take my child anywhere they gave me the correct info to the house where my son is living if he try to flee he goes straight to jail all i have to do is go get my son bring his birth certificate showing that the person who has my son name is not on there only mine i showed police all my papers like legal aid told me so thank god dnt have to go to court or anything so monday im going to file a motion to get full custody of my son n like i thought he has to take me to court n do a paternity test proving he the father then it a go from there other then that i have all rights he doesnt he has to come to michigan n fight me n court

Dove - posted on 04/29/2016

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If you legally have custody and he doesn't have visitation rights... the police would get the kid and bring him home to you. The fact that the police will not get involved means he has a legal right to have his child. The police get involved in legal matters... but this is a civil one (meaning the father DOES have a legal right to have his child until you get a court order stating otherwise).

Have you brought this paperwork that claims you have sole custody to the police station in Detroit?

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/29/2016

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Stop making excuses as to WHY you have NOT done anything. If you want your kid back you need to take steps.

The others haven't posted anything that isn't true.

Michelle - posted on 04/29/2016

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Well praying hasn't worked for the last 3 months so it's time to find the money for a lawyer.
You trusted him to return your son and he hasn't, why would you trust that he hasn't had a DNA test done.

Jodi - posted on 04/29/2016

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Of course you have to pay for a lawyer....unless you qualify for legal aid. Find a way to afford one. That is all you can do.

Mylitta - posted on 04/29/2016

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I have tried to tlk n get a laywer i have to pay which i cnt afford one an my paperwork is through the courts its just i cnt up n leave to go get my son so im trying to see what else i can do n what else can the courts do because he is n georgia n im here n detroit mi

Mylitta - posted on 04/29/2016

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I know that but i trust he didn't an rather or he has proof he the dad or not that doesn't change the fact that i have sole custody of my son i just have to go to court an see what else can be done for me to get my child back home due to me can't get him the way i been trying but im not go worry im go continue to pray that god bring my son back because he had no busniness keeping him my child not un danger has his own room clothes shoes food etc n i work an have my own home n everything but i a go through courts to see if they locate n have a warrant issued to bring my son bck home

Jodi - posted on 04/29/2016

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Your paperwork is not court ordered. End of story.

As I said, talk to a lawyer. Why haven't you done that yet?

Michelle - posted on 04/29/2016

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Mylitta, he could have proof he is the Father, like everyone else has said, he can get a DNA test done. That will prove he is the Father. He can do that without you knowing.

Mylitta - posted on 04/29/2016

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Im not go post all my personal business on here trust if i could have left n went n got my son i would have been did that n i have paper work proving i have sole custody of my son its no good because i cnt up n leave to go get my son nbhe dnt have rights his ne isnt on his bc i uave sole custody as i stated n once i figure out how to get my son i will proceed to do that he doesnt have sny proof he the father he has to fight me in court same way i have too

Jodi - posted on 04/29/2016

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Mylitta, he can get proof with a DNA test. He doesn't need your approval to do that. You can't know whether he has done that or not.

With regard to up and travelling to another state.....this is your kid. It was January. You haven't been "nearly due" for all this time. If it was honestly that much of a big deal, I don't understand why you haven't just gone to find them.

You have no paperwork through the courts. So the paper it is written on is toilet paper. You have nothing.

It doesn't matter if you weren't married. If he has proof he is the father (not that hard to get) he has the same rights as you. Father have the same rights as mothers. He doesn't have to prove you an unfit mother. He just has to prove he is the father (simple DNA test) to have rights.

Ultimately, you need a lawyer. And you need orders through a court. And now that the child lives in Georgia, you will probably have to file there, but you will have to ask your lawyer that.

Mylitta - posted on 04/29/2016

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An he doesn't have proof he is the father he has to come where i live to go to court n fight for our son its illegal for him to do that in another state he a go to jail i have a the proof i contacted him an he know where i live so he cnt say he has heard from me

Mylitta - posted on 04/29/2016

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No I've done more then call the police i cnt just up an leave to travel to another state im almost due n i have other kids i dnt have anyone to watch them an he gave me a incorrect address i have paperwork saying i have sole custody of my son but its not through the court n yes my son was pose to came back as i stated the end of january due to snow storm i told his father not to drive him in that type of weather an i had other personal things happen after this but its ok im go get my son i already got legal advice on this we wasn't married so he cnt just take my son his name not on the birth certificate he a have to take me to court an prove im a unfit parent until then he a have to give my son back

Jodi - posted on 04/29/2016

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Maybe he does have proof he is the father. You can't know he doesn't. Maybe he's had a DNA test done.

You need to talk to a lawyer and make sure you have custody. Only then can you do anything about it.

You say he was supposed to bring the child back in January.....it's April, and the only thing you have done is call the police?

Mylitta - posted on 04/28/2016

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No they dnt know anything i just called to ask questions but im just gone go to court a proceed that way its kidnapping because he has no proof he the father or any of his records or anything i have my son info my son hasnt had shots or anything he has no insurance while he with his dad or anything so im go pray n continue to ask god to bring my child back home and to cover him cause if he get hurt he has no type of insurance to pay for his meds its very hurtful im going through this but i learned my lesson

Dove - posted on 04/28/2016

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If he does not have any proof of paternity and you did not acknowledge to the police that the man is his father I would 'think' that would be able to be considered kidnapping, but if the police already told you that they can't help (did you talk to people in charge at the station?)... going through court is your only option.

Custody and child support are completely different issues. Having one does not automatically give you the other.

Mylitta - posted on 04/28/2016

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I didn't know i had to do so i never had any issues with my other kids and we are not married an never has been i have sole custody of my kids due to child support but by us not being married or never was married and his name not on the birth certificate i figure i can use police enforcement but i will go down to the courts an see if they give me papers or information on what to do

Dove - posted on 04/28/2016

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Get a lawyer and go to court. You should have had custody and visitation papers done through the court prior to sending your son off w/ his father because now the only way to get him back is with a court order.

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