Belinda - posted on 10/05/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
My son is 18, & his girlfriend, his first love, (remember that?) dumped him. They treated each other pretty badly in the end, and we are all breathing a sigh of relief over here. Problem is, he has never really been a very motivated person, and now he is pretty much refusing to do anything for himself at this point. We feel he is carrying around guilt because he didn't treat her right, and is now on a mission to sabotage the little bit of stability he has created for himself. He has no motivation at all. He has to work all this out for himself, but how can we help him to be more motivated and support him out of his funk?