My son and his girlfriend moved out without saying anything. I found out when he didn't come home for two days (I called everywhere and was concerned they were in an accident). My youngest son finally told me-he said his brother was swore he'd talk with me and tell me before he left-but of course he didn't. I've always supported by sons-emotionally, psychologically, financially. I suspect that his girlfriend has gotten him hooked on some kind of drug based on physical symptoms he was having before they left (weight loss, anxiety, panic attacks, high heart rate, delusions/paranoia). He just dropped out of college (one course short of a degree) and they left-took off to her parents place in Idaho. It's been 5 months and no word, no response to texts, facebook message nothing. How do I move on, let this go. No feel so much like a failure. not feel like I've been stabbed in the back by my own child?? BTW his dad left the same way (after being caught posting ads on craigs list and meeting up with strangers for you know what and being confronted that is)

Bre - posted on 10/21/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Eldest son left without a word and no word still. How do I move on??

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Bre - posted on 10/23/2013

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Absolutely agree about praying...great suggestion on social worker for support. Thanks!

Mbele - posted on 10/21/2013

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It must b so hard for u to move on.n if hes on drugs d chances of him gting helped or u finding him are very slim.so hw abt u talk to social workers to help you on this one and nothing beats prayers my dear.

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