my son boys don't like my boys friends children aves from 13-16..don't

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Proudmd2006 - posted on 05/26/2015

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my son biologic father hast not seen my son for a few months but not on the BC do i still need to wait untill sept. to file for abandonment?

Robin - posted on 05/26/2015

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Thank you..I agree..they don't have to hang out and they don't have to get along. I don't think I'm being unreasonable.. My sons think they can determine what they will and will not do.I was curious on someone else opinion.. I don't want to insist on something I shouldn't.

Jodi - posted on 05/26/2015

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I think it is okay that he doesn't get along with your boyfriend's sons. You can't make them like each other. This is a part of what blending a family is about. It may not work because of personality differences of various people in the relationship. There are more than two people in this relationship, and you do have to consider them in any long term decisions. Just remember, however, that biological siblings don't always get along all the time either. Siblings can be annoying too. But they don't get the option to opt out of vacations, dinners, etc. I think your son needs to give you a really good reason not to attend those occasions, other than that the other boy is annoying. He doesn't HAVE to hang out with him, right?

Robin - posted on 05/25/2015

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Almost a year..but we didn't tell then we were dating until Feb.no we don't live together.This is the 1st boyfriend I have brought around my kids since my divorce 2.5 yrs ago..that alone I know is tough on my 12 yr old.

Robin - posted on 05/25/2015

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I am so sorry..I was trying to edit and posted instead.. But your good figuring that mess out. My boys are 12-15 his are 13-15-6. The 15 yr olds grew up together being friends..now my sons find him to be anoying (and he is) and don't want to do anything with them including dinner, day trips ..vacations..and my boyfriend always has his son..

Jodi - posted on 05/24/2015

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I'm a little confused. Is English your first language, because this is quite difficult to decipher..... Are you saying your sons don't like your boyfriend's children?

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