Amber - posted on 12/25/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )
Okay, well my son is two. And his father and I have been split up since before his 1st birthday. I am now married, and also have a step son. I would never let my husband's son call my momma because it feels wrong. He has a mother and I could never replace her. On the other hand, my son calls my husband daddy. We have tried to talk to him and sometimes he does call him by his first name. He's just too young to understand. But my exs girlfriend constantly has him call her mommy. They hadn't even been dating two weeks and she was saying how much she loved being a mother. I thought I curbed that bullet then, but time could only tell. Theyve been together for quite awhile now and were at our house dropping hunter off, and he said momma! And her and I both said what at the same time. :/ needless to say my heart dropped. I dont know what to do because I know my son doesnt understand, but she's constantly doing things like this. I justs don't want some huge blow up. Any advice?