Mildred - posted on 09/11/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
Hi, I am new here and the situation im in right now has push to seek for serious advice, I really hope i can find it here. Ive read many posts about telling your kids the truth about their father. My son is 9 and his bio dad was never in the picture. I meet my husband when my son was 4 yrs, until this date I am very scare to tell him that he is not his real father. We have another boy, now 3yrs old, this will be the first kid for him but for me i have 2 and he has taken the position of not paying attention to my son and instead just play with his real son. i am very hurt by this and ive told him many times but he says that until i tell my son who his real father is he will not change. I am sooo scare that with my husbands behaviour and this news will just destroy my son. I really need help on what to do. I want to tell him but i wish the relationship between him and my son were diferent. Thanks for reading my story and for your comments.