My son has spent the last 3 weeks with his dad...the dad that has spent oe week in 3 years with him. I have just had a back operation, and my son is doing brilliantly down here educationally wise....but he's hanging round with the wrong crowd and getting into trouble. Its been a releif him being away under the circumstances ( back op ) but....one week turned into 2 weeks ( I was okay with that ) but now he has told his dad that he can stay longer and doesn't need to start 6th form just yet. Me and the dad don't speak, its normally done through other members of the family. I have residential custody of the kids now 19 and son who is 16 ( just) and the father has stopped all communication with any member of family his or mine. I belive that my son will not be able to continue his education and his father ( who has a police record including assualt and drug dealing ) may be using this as a way of once again getting 'at me'. He has refused to pay mainteneance through the csa for 3 years because up until 3 years ago I had to ring him every month to ask where the maintenance was. I haev a BIG problem.....we were divorced in Scotland but I live in England. Any advice please. X

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