My son is 14 straights A's great kid

Tina - posted on 04/12/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )

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My husband treats me like a princess will have 3rd anniversary June 4, if he loves me sooo much how.can he be so cold and always find negative bring up but never positive. He says he refuses to baby him as l do. I told him its called a loving parent. My son was molested as a young child as well as.his 2 older sisters. My husband never had a mom she ran men and was an alcoholic l feel hes jealous. This is 90% of out problem and l love him but lm bitter and it goes nowhere. Im ready move out in June when school is out. Feel like im out of options please help

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Michelle - posted on 04/13/2014

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Being a loving parent/role model isn't babying a child, it's giving them love and support.
My husband loves my 2 boys from my first marriage just as much as he loves our daughter. He hugs them and tells them he loves them all the time.
If my husband wasn't accepting of my children then he wouldn't have become my husband. My children deserve to be the 1st priority in my life over any man.
I dated quite a few that couldn't accept that my children came before ANY man in my life. Needless to say they didn't last long.

Denise - posted on 04/12/2014

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3 years huh? Why have you put up with his treatment of your kids this long? He isnt jealous, he is selfish. Your kids do not need another abuser in their lives. Yes they grow up and move out, but they need unconditional love from the parent figures in their life to be healthy. You are being an amazing mom by singing praises of your children, but by allowing this negative influence to be in their life, it pretty much cancels out the good. Baby your son, how about a way to go and I am so proud that you are doing so well in school. That is not babying, that is positive praise that helps a kid stay strong and move foraward.

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try to approach him wth cool, lovely text and speeches and hug and cuddle im sure he will like it and tell him how mch u lve him and wnt hm to be the best son ever hope dis help :)

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