My son is being peer pressured into having a sex change.

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/08/2016

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Apparently Eva, while encouraging others to "read properly", has failed to properly read the op, eh?

Not to mention the "women are superior" comment... laughable at best

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/09/2016

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Have you seen Eva's latest about her son beating her with his trombone? Yep, total troll

Michelle - posted on 09/09/2016

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Very possible Dove. Or they just seem to have multiplied.
It's interesting that Baozhai hasn't been back but the others are supporting it.

Dove - posted on 09/09/2016

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No Michelle, I didn't miss that at all.... I think all 3 are trolls... and I'm highly suspecting they are also all the same person....

Dove - posted on 09/09/2016

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Did anyone else notice that Jennifer, Eva, and Baozhai all have the exact same typing style...?

Sarah - posted on 09/09/2016

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Eva, I did read your response, and I did comprehend what your said:
" Don't worry, he can have the change whenever he wants, and he will feel great finally having it. "
So my response was focused on your encouragement to let this 10 yo proceed now with transition to female. Males or females who transition to the other gender, are transgender by definition. Changing your gender from male to female, does not make you a lesbian. A transitioned male to female may be sexually attracted to men, making her heterosexual not a lesbian.
You added in your post to Shawnn:
"Any child of any age should be able to do what he or she wants to make them feel happy, especially regarding sexuality and gender."
The OP, does not indicate that her son identifies as female or even wants to be female. Rather, that he is being peer pressured by a group on older girls to become a girl. Why would any mother encourage her child to bow to peer pressure and push her child to switch genders based on the opinions of others?

Michelle - posted on 09/09/2016

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Did you all miss this stupid comment:
"I agree with Lucifer, I recommend he chooses an Apache A-26 attack helicopter gender. Help him particularly with the rotor blade installation if he chooses."
WTF is that?

Eva: The child isn't choosing to have a sex change, his idiotic "friends" are "forcing" him to have one. Plus he's only 10, so no he can't have one.
Like I keep saying, tell him to find new friends!!!!!

Dove - posted on 09/08/2016

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*I highly encourage your son to do the same. These friends obviously like your son very much, and only want him to change to suit them. Don't worry, he can have the change whenever he wants, and he will feel great finally having it.

You said this to the OP... who's child is 10.

Though I highly believe you are also a troll anyway given your comments and wording. Stupid page is full of wackos lately...

Eva - posted on 09/08/2016

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Hi Dove,

Again, you fail to read my response correctly. Let me clarify. I was talking about my son, now daughter, WHO IS 19, not Baozhai's child. Any child of any age should be able to do what he or she wants to make them feel happy, especially regarding sexuality and gender.

Thanks

Eva - posted on 09/08/2016

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Hi Sarah

I'm terribly sorry that you can't actually comprehend what I even said. I was never told by any law that my son was prohibited from surgery, and he is in fact 19 years old. He had approval from over 2 doctors, both qualified from the American institute of Scientology. Stop assuming my son's gender, age and medical history. I never said her son was transgender, stop making these things up.

Open your eyes, Women have always been oppressed. Clearly, they are lesbian if he has a sex change. Please read my posts properly in future.

Thanks

Sarah - posted on 09/08/2016

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Eva, you are a total liar. You cannot have a sex change without years of counseling, approval from more than one psychiatrist and you also have to be 18 to have the "chop"
Don't encourage this lie. This woman never said her son was transgender. She said he was pressured by peers. No doctor would ever, ever, ever agree to proceeding with a sex change due to peer pressure.
"Being a woman is clearly superior to a man, why not become one?" As a woman who admires men i find this offensive, and to assume that once a male transitions to female automatically make her a lesbian is ignorant.

Eva - posted on 09/08/2016

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I agree with Lucifer, I recommend he chooses an Apache A-26 attack helicopter gender. Help him particularly with the rotor blade installation if he chooses.

Eva - posted on 09/08/2016

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Hey Baozhai,

My son had the exact same problem. At age 19, he finally accomplished his goal. I highly encourage your son to do the same. These friends obviously like your son very much, and only want him to change to suit them. Don't worry, he can have the change whenever he wants, and he will feel great finally having it.

Being a woman is clearly superior to a man, why not become one? He would enjoy it very much, and his friends would surely enjoy having a lesbian relationship with him.

Regards

Sarah - posted on 09/07/2016

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Wow. Why would a group of girls even care if he was a boy or girl. This makes no senses at all.

Michelle - posted on 09/06/2016

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We were actually asking you if your son wants a sex change, not how he feels about the other kids. Sorry, they aren't his friends!
If he doesn't like the way they are treating him then he should stop hanging around them, it's pretty simple.

Jennifer - posted on 09/06/2016

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Baozhai,
You have to tell him not to let the peer pressure get to him and that he cannot have a sex change.
He can look after himself

Dove - posted on 09/06/2016

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No one can pressure a 10 year old into having a sex change because it's your job as a parent to protect him from harmful influences....

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/06/2016

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So it's fairly simple... don't let your son hang out with older kids. Keep him in his own age group.

Baozhai - posted on 09/06/2016

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I'm sorry to Dove and Shawn. I think I was just venting about how my husband has been a little distant lately. Sorry Dove! Didn't mean to.

My son personally feels stressed about his older girl friends trying to convince him and peer pressure him into changing genders.

I will be back soon after my therapist appointment. Sorry to Dove and Shawn again. Chat later.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/06/2016

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OMG!!! Did you just say that you are being bullied by Dove???

How, exactly? She has made observations. So have the rest of us. Good grief! Get a grip. How are you being "cyber bullied"?

Those of us who have been on this site for YEARS tend to navigate it, and research posters that seem to have a hinky vibe. I found you, same as Dove did. You are on a public forum, available INTERNATIONALLY, for God's sake. Your profile is up there, and anyone can see what you have posted.

Like I said, that is not bullying, it is researching.

You, by the way, have yet to answer any of our questions as to how YOUR SON feels about this...

Baozhai - posted on 09/06/2016

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My son is ten years old and is being peer pressured by older friends. I feel inclined to believe I myself am being cyberbullied/trolled by an unknown troll by the screen name of Dove. I find it unusual that Dove found me on both Jennifer's conversation and my own. Would you please explain this to me, Dove?

Clover - posted on 09/06/2016

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Invite all these friends over with you son and have a discussion with them all
Help them realize realities

Jodi - posted on 09/05/2016

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People don't get peer pressured into getting sex changes. That's not how it works.

Dove - posted on 09/05/2016

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Shawnn... I'm highly inclined to believe we have two current trolls... and I almost think they are the same person....

Baozhai... how old is your son and what does he think about the situation?

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/05/2016

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You did not answer the question. What does your SON want?

Baozhai - posted on 09/05/2016

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Well, his friends want him to be a girl since most of his friends are girls and they say that if he doesn't change, then they will leave him. I'm very worried.

Respond soon,
Baozhai

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