Carla - posted on 04/12/2016 ( 1 mom has responded )
Almost a year ago I got a call from my son that he and his bm (baby mama) were separating and he had nowhere to go in Florida. After seveal calls it was decided to bring him back to Missouri as he didn't really know anyone there. I spent $192 to bring him back. Two days later the bm shows up. A month and a half I had 13 people in my home then. Now I am on the verge of my relationship because my son made a mistake that was direspectful by walking in my bedroomafter he was told we were in bed. This upset my significant other and me as my son wouldn't leave when asked. We have been together 10 years but because my son is half stepping (work, contributing to bills, curses, verbally abusive). On the other hand my boyfriend of 10 years is very good to me and wants what's best for me. But ever sine they arrived I have been financially strapped. No help at all except for my sweetie. I'm tense, have to put my foot down to keep my son from trying to run my house. He acts like he can't get off the couch long enough except to eat, sleep, urinate, wash his behind, and get-gone when he feels like it.
I feel overwhelmed by all the rig-a-ma roll. The jealousy and insecurities are out of hand. I love them both, but we all know family love I'd different from a soulmate love. I don't like confusion and this is out of hand so I applied to an exparte to wake my son up. His behavior is out of control. I was denied the exparte. However because of the vulgar language I am deal with, I decided to file a Notice to Quit. Meaning, this can lead to an eviction but I'm giving him 15 to 30 days to pull it together and get a full-time job. In all actuality, he already had the 15 days, so he really getting more time. It's like his whole system shuts down because I'm taking him out of his smart-ellic comfort zone. Attitude suddenly changes. Right now he knows I'm not happy and that's the way I want it