my son past aat the age of 15 on december 11 2010. i am still a mess. i have been to psychiatrists & pschologists. i can't talk to my husband. when i try he pushes me away or gets angry when i cry. what i want to know is does it ever get better ?

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 01/28/2012

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Thanks for making that more clear Iridescent, I was reading it all wrong. Vanessa, I am so sorry for your loss. What a terrible thing it is to lose a child. Please keep seeing a the doctors to help you through your grieving process. With time, your husband will come around. You both need eachothers support right now. So sorry.

Iridescent - posted on 01/28/2012

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I am so very sorry for your loss. I have not lost a child, but many of my friends have. It's been very difficult for each and every one of them. Some have coped by making things to help them remember the life their child had - quilts, scrapbooks, one wrote a book, memory pages on facebook. One couple decided to stop talking about children for a while, they left their home, and they're just trying to get by day by day and find joy in anything else. I don't think the pain ever really can go away; I'd honestly hate if it would. It's your child. But for some, with time, it can get easier, and less grief, and remembering the good times while they were alive. I hope you're able to find that point.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 01/28/2012

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Not really certain what you are talking about, could you clarify? Whatever is going on, this seems to be your husbands way of dealing with his emotions,...which is not good for you. I hope it does get better for you!

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